Why Vibrating Dildos Belong on Your Nightstand

Today, we’re diving into why vibrating dildos deserve a spot in your self-care routine, which types are best for different vibes, and how to shop for them at Esme and Elodie, both in-store and online.

Why Vibrating Dildos? It’s About Confidence and Control

Let’s skip the awkwardness: pleasure products like vibrating dildos aren’t taboo. They’re essential. For our plus-size shoppers especially, we hear it all the time:

“Will it work for my body?”
“Is it discreet?”
“How do I even pick one that’s good?”

Here’s the truth: a vibrating dildo can offer you solo satisfaction or be a fun addition to partnered play. And unlike fast fashion, quality matters. That’s why we curate only the best designs, shapes, and brands that work for a range of bodies and preferences.

The Esme & Elodie Approach to Sex Toy Shopping

We don’t do awkward salespeople or dusty backrooms. At Esme and Elodie, we approach sex toys like we do fashion: inclusivity, honesty, and a little snark.

That means:

• Sex toys that fit all different preferences and lifestyles

• Brands that are woman owned and designed with female pleasure in mind

• Materials that are safe for your body

• A focus on both in-store and discreet online shopping experiences

What to Look for in a Vibrating Dildo

If this is your first vibrating dildo—or it’s been a minute since you upgraded—here’s what matters most:

1. Shape and Size That Fits Your Body
   Not all vibrating dildos are created equal. We carry a range from slim, beginner-friendly options to larger, girthy styles. For plus-size bodies, paying attention to handle length and ergonomic design can make all the difference.

2. Material Quality
   Medical-grade silicone is where it’s at. Avoid anything that smells like plastic or feels sticky. We only stock body-safe materials, so you never have to second-guess.

3. Vibration Settings
   More doesn’t always mean better. We suggest toys with multiple modes so you can find your ideal intensity without things getting overwhelming.

4. Waterproof or Not?
   You’d be surprised how many people ask about this. Yes, we have waterproof vibrating dildos. Yes, bath time can get interesting.

At Esme and Elodie, we believe in confidence, pleasure, and owning what makes you feel good—whether that's a killer outfit or a high-quality vibrating dildo. Our Renton boutique isn’t just about clothes. It’s about empowering women, plus-size babes, and anyone who walks through our door (or scrolls through our online shop) to embrace joy on every level—including the bedroom.